Thursday, December 15, 2016

quoteable

  We cannot change our past. We can not change the fact that people act in a certain way. We can not change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.


― Charles R. Swindol


 Whatever we are waiting for - peace of mind, contentment, grace, the inner awareness of simple abundance - it will surely come to us, but only when we are ready to receive it with an open and grateful heart.


― Sarah Ban Breathnach 



   If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on is to never stop loving them.


― James O'Barr 

   I have known a vast quantity of nonsense talked about bad men not looking you in the face. Don't trust that conventional idea. Dishonesty will stare honesty out of countenance any day in the week, if there is anything to be got by it.


― Charles Dickens 


   Some say that the age of chivalry is past, that the spirit of romance is dead. The age of chivalry is never past, so long as there is a wrong left unredressed on earth.


― Charles Kingsley 

   It's the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief. And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.


― Muhammad Ali 
   Take chances, make mistakes. That's how you grow. Pain nourishes your courage. You have to fail in order to practice being brave.


― Mary Tyler Moore 
   Let me define a leader. He must have vision and passion and not be afraid of any problem. Instead, he should know how to defeat it. Most importantly, he must work with integrity.


― A. P. J. Abdul Kalam   
   All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.


― Scott Alexander 

Remember that the most valuable antiques are dear old friends.


― H. Jackson Brown, Jr. 

   You can't play sports without losing sometimes and, in losing, you learn something about grace and how to act under pressure.


― John F. Kerry 

   There is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself.


― Miyamoto Musashi

   The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life.


― Richard Bach 
   Life's most persistent and urgent question is, 'What are you doing for others?'


― Martin Luther King, Jr. 
   Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.


― Dale Carnegie 


   We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it.


― John Lennon 


   Happiness is not a brilliant climax to years of grim struggle and anxiety. It is a long succession of little decisions simply to be happy in the moment.


― J. Donald Walters 



  At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.


― Albert Schweitzer 






   Passive inactivity, because you have not been given specific instructions to do this or to do that, is a serious deficiency.


― George C. Marshall 






   While you're going through this process of trying to find the satisfaction in your work, pretend you feel satisfied. Tell yourself you had a good day. Walk through the corridors with a smile rather than a scowl. Your positive energy will radiate. If you act like you're having fun, you'll find you are having fun.


― Jean Chatzky 


The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care that you entertain no notions unsuitable to virtue and reasonable nature.


― Marcus Aurelius 


Do not pray for tasks equal to your powers. Pray for powers equal to your tasks.


― Phillips Brooks 



   Winning and losing are both very temporary things. Having done one or the other, you move ahead. Gloating over a victory or sulking over a loss is a good way to stand still.


― Chuck Knox 


Tuesday, May 03, 2016

I knew what I liked.






      At one time, I knew what I liked, and liked what I knew. Then I was not so sure I knew what I was, and if what I knew was for me; nor I for it. 
      I gave myself to the unknown in all directions and came up knowledgeable but empty handed.         
      Eventually I returned to what I knew, but now what I know does not recognize me. Only will it accept and understand if I return to a state of ignorance. For it does not know is that one cannot unlearn, and forgetting is not the same thing. 
     What it forgets is that there is no going back, only understanding. 
      While I know it didn't forget what was ignored, I could never forget, but I keep trying to go back and that it understands.
       A big part of its' charm is the resistance to change and refusal to understand. 
      What I accept as my greatest asset is the inability to hide the truth, as my overwhelming empathy creates only acceptance and understanding.
       I can't hide my weather beaten face; for you, nor I would know who I am.

Monday, March 07, 2016

Getting Beat On

The dynamics of domestic violence are not normal for those who have not been in it, or apart of it.



   Life is a series of punches. It presents a lot of challenges. It presents a lot of hardship, but the people that are able to take those punches and able to move forward are the ones that really do have a lot of success and have a lot of joy in their life and have a lot of stories to tell, too.


― Josh Turner 


I can take some hits! 

Blows to the face and head; emotional, financial, and paranormal traumas. 


Working with Love

Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment.


― Mahatma Gandhi 


Every time I sat down to do some work with someone I love something happened. 
SOMEONE STOPPED IT!
Something got in the way, or some how it just didn't get done. 
I have learned nothing before, but I am going to learn something now! No more will I try to work with anyone I care about. Fuck hiring your friends, these people are not your friends. 
It, literally, NEVER WORKS OUT!
Last night I dreamed I was in a war zone, and I was getting on to a ship to either go further into the warzone, or make my way out of it. I am pretty sure I was heading into it. 
Ironically enough I said this very morning "Should we get weapons or learn Mandarin?" 


LESSON LEARNED, NO MORE WORKING WITH FRIENDS! 

Friday, January 15, 2016

You will die one day, what will you wish you'd done before you die?

   Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.


― Steve Jobs