No posts for me

No posts for me! - w4m - 30 (philadelphia)

age : 30

I check this once a week to see if anyone of the tons of people who check me out followed through to tell me so via the anonymous internet. That I was the one person whom they don't know yet that is their "one".

I give off cunty body language in public, so I am less surprised that there is no follow through.
Except after reading so many missed connections I see a very disappointing pattern of men falling for women in grocery stores and coffee shops. Waitresses and hairdressers that are near their neighborhood or in their face on a daily or weekly basis.

I, personally, don't have one of those jobs. I am not on display.
My Jinxed ex fell hard for a basic woman he happened to see on the daily, and she had no interest in him but he fucked our relationship up anyway.

This had me perpetually questioning my own worth until I saw this craigslist pattern.

It appears there is only the imagination at work in these situations. Overworked and sometimes exhausted men fantasizing about what could be, when all they know is the smile of someone being paid to smile.
The sympathetic ear of a poor girl with her hand out for tips.

Instead of imaging the possibilities of someone you have a genuine connection with, you would rather focus your energy on the potential of another that you don't know. While your mind plays tricks imagining the personality, building a fake character around a familiar friendly face, your attention slips away from work, school, your children, your creatures, your loved ones, your family, and yourself. All of this built on the foundation of imagination.

When really all you see is physical beauty and the behavior of a model employee.

Usually determination to follow through on one's fantasies has these men/women going for it.
If these go anything like the way my ex's crushes have, that shit fizzles out in 3 weeks or less every time!

Yet he and many other partners lose great futures to the imagination! To a phantom potential that doesn't exist.

Don't let basic fool you, if he/she has a basic job guess what.....

Your mind plays tricks on you, take control of your future.